what type of mother are you?



Hello readers... Especially mothers... 
I'm curious about this... "What kind of mother"... I mean... When it comes to raising children, how do you behave? What traits do you use for parenting? Especially in academics And behavior.

I've been thinking about this issue lately. Actually... I quite observe the parents of my child's friends. about their nature is diverse... By the way, This is my new experience,  Of course, because Rafa started school... I often do about observing the behavior of parents towards their children... 

I came to one conclusion...
Some force their children... Just like their children must be excellent in every academic.. and some are very relaxed with their children's progress, as long as they don't leave the school context, it's enough... 

how about me? I am typical very very very relaxed about academic matters... I'm someone who doesn't force Rafa to do well in school...Don't think I didn't teach Rafa... I teach him... But don't push too much on him...

I don't want Rafa to be formed from my will... And not being himself... I don't want Rafa to live his life being forced by his parents... That's bad... Based on my experience growing up... 😌

Academic value for me is number 3 or 5 in life... But if Rafa excels in academics, it is a bonus in my life...I'm That Simple...

I'm just observing not being pushy... If he needs help I'll help with his permission... Before that, he had to sort things out on his own... And he can learn from his mistakes... 

and about his behavior... Respecting a woman is something I emphasize to Rafa... Starting from small things... Like if I change clothes he shouldn't see... 

Sometimes he asks "mommy, why can't I see you wearing clothes?" I explain because we are of different gender... Because I'm a woman and you a man... 

And what amazed me... When the bedroom door was not closed and I happened to change clothes...He saw me but automatically looked away and quickly closed the bedroom door...

I also taught him to be gentle with his female friends...If he gets hit by her don't reply... Just say it hurts, and don't do it again... If it happened at school, just tell the teacher... But luckily, none of Rafa's female friends have ever been rude... 

Raising a son is like preparing a leader... Must have authority, and must be able to bear responsibility...That's why I never forced anything on him, only monitored, and taught him about ethics...  Let him be what he is, that way he will be a leader in his way... Not a leader made from his parents... 

So mom. "What type of mother are you?"

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